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Noah Cyrus – Make Me (Cry) ft. Labrinth

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXyBcKV0UIo Make Me Cry  by Noah Cyrus ft. Labrinth, is a song written about how it feels to be in a pathological relationship. "I've never needed you like I do right now. Make Me (Cry) by Noah Cyrus ft. Labrinth, is a song written about how it feels to be in a pathological relationship. "I've … Continue reading Noah Cyrus – Make Me (Cry) ft. Labrinth

What if We Chose to Be Here?

It seemed like a simple question, but the more I pondered it the more I recognized it was rewriting how I told my story. For years, I've said, "I think I chose to be here" and in a recent conversation with a friend, I turned it around and said, "What if we all chose to … Continue reading What if We Chose to Be Here?

Grey Rocking a Narcissist

You know you are going to encounter them during the holidays. Here is a little refresher video to help you circumvent the drama when you see them. This technique can be used to keep calm and out of the line of fire. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wprbb809i3U

Arguing with a Narcissist – YouTube Video

My YouTube Channel has hit over a thousand views in about three weeks. I have no way of knowing if that is "typical" or below average or whatever. But the thought of people spending over 128 hours watching videos of me talk about narcissism. Strange thought. Here is "Arguing with a Narcissist" a little five … Continue reading Arguing with a Narcissist – YouTube Video

Addicted to Narcissistic Drama

Renee Zellerger, in more than one movie, illustrates the thrill of dating the "bad boy".  In "Bridget Jones Diary," she chooses Daniel, her inappropriate boss, who flirts with her at work and is a notorious womanizer over the quieter, more boring lawyer. We all understand. In "The Holiday" she is once again with a man … Continue reading Addicted to Narcissistic Drama

My Site is NOT back up

Wow! What a terrible couple of days. I renewed my URL, http://www.wendypowell.ca with Sibername for a really long time and I am regretting it in a way that I can't explain politely. Yes, a Canadian company, Sibername, who allegedly manages URLs. The whole problem began with my requirement to have a new email address. This … Continue reading My Site is NOT back up

A Litmus Test for Narcissism

"This is the best relationship that I've ever had!" is often part of the description of the problem. You see, narcissists know what you want and like. They have no trouble lying and telling you what you want to hear. This makes it very confusing to determine if they are "the best" or "the worst" … Continue reading A Litmus Test for Narcissism

Outsmarting the Narcissist

Once again, you find yourself struggling to remember what actually did happen. You are having THAT conversation again during which you are told your memory is bad, you are making things up and you must be losing your mind. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist has been told this. It matters … Continue reading Outsmarting the Narcissist