Do you feel you are being treated unfairly in your family? You may be living with a narcissist.
You know you are going to encounter them during the holidays. Here is a little refresher video to help you circumvent the drama when you see them. This technique can be used to keep calm and out of the line of fire. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wprbb809i3U
Here we go again, live, or it was when I shot it, How to Outsmart a Narcissist. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK-ZciTKBA4
This is a new thing for me. People seem to prefer the videos, so I'm posting this as a blog.
Renee Zellerger, in more than one movie, illustrates the thrill of dating the "bad boy". In "Bridget Jones Diary," she chooses Daniel, her inappropriate boss, who flirts with her at work and is a notorious womanizer over the quieter, more boring lawyer. We all understand. In "The Holiday" she is once again with a man … Continue reading Addicted to Narcissistic Drama
"This is the best relationship that I've ever had!" is often part of the description of the problem. You see, narcissists know what you want and like. They have no trouble lying and telling you what you want to hear. This makes it very confusing to determine if they are "the best" or "the worst" … Continue reading A Litmus Test for Narcissism
Once again, you find yourself struggling to remember what actually did happen. You are having THAT conversation again during which you are told your memory is bad, you are making things up and you must be losing your mind. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist has been told this. It matters … Continue reading Outsmarting the Narcissist
This is an excerpt from my first book, "I Woke Up in Paradise". I was receiving cheques from the government. They had started to come again after my work at the emergency clinic, but they were about to run out. I had been applying to jobs and despite Bob’s insistence that I work; he was actively … Continue reading Narcissism-Scenes From the Front Line — New Job
I realized in an inside-out way that I was thinking about writing about writing and it seemed so peculiar and strange. I often just "feel" like capturing a moment, the way that I'm feeling at the time and I started to form the thoughts and then it hit me, "I want to write a blog … Continue reading Writing About Writing