Families of Narcissists-Scapegoat

Do you feel you are being treated unfairly in your family? You may be living with a narcissist.

Forgiveness and the Narcissist

Here is a short video from my YouTube Channel. If you like it you may like the others: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF7HO62Ol-laN6cj6vlkiOA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EX_ZSCdJ4iY

The Narcissist’s Smear Campaign – What to do?

Grey Rocking a Narcissist

You know you are going to encounter them during the holidays. Here is a little refresher video to help you circumvent the drama when you see them. This technique can be used to keep calm and out of the line of fire. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wprbb809i3U

Outsmarting the Narcissist — YouTube Video

Here we go again, live, or it was when I shot it,  How to Outsmart a Narcissist. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK-ZciTKBA4

Outsmarting the Narcissist

Once again, you find yourself struggling to remember what actually did happen. You are having THAT conversation again during which you are told your memory is bad, you are making things up and you must be losing your mind. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist has been told this. It matters …

Narcissism-Scenes From the Front Line — New Job

This is an excerpt from my first book, "I Woke Up in Paradise". I was receiving cheques from the government. They had started to come again after my work at the emergency clinic, but they were about to run out. I had been applying to jobs and despite Bob’s insistence that I work; he was actively …

Writing About Writing

I realized in an inside-out way that I was thinking about writing about writing and it seemed so peculiar and strange. I often just "feel" like capturing a moment, the way that I'm feeling at the time and I started to form the thoughts and then it hit me,  "I want to write a blog …

Why Were You With a Narcissist? — Part 3

This post is continued from Part 1 and Part 2. We need to examine two things at the beginning of any relationship: Are they capable of love? What is reasonable to expect when someone says they love you? Here are some of the clues to the answers: 1. How they act is more important than …

Why Were You With a Narcissist — Part 2

In Part 1 we looked at the types of people that a narcissist is attracted to, now we need to consider why you chose a narcissist. It may mean that you have never received unconditional love. You may simply not know what this feels like. There can be many reasons for this. Your parents or …