The Narcissist’s Smear Campaign – What to do?

Grey Rocking a Narcissist

You know you are going to encounter them during the holidays. Here is a little refresher video to help you circumvent the drama when you see them. This technique can be used to keep calm and out of the line of fire. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wprbb809i3U

Outsmarting the Narcissist — YouTube Video

Here we go again, live, or it was when I shot it,  How to Outsmart a Narcissist. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK-ZciTKBA4

Outsmarting the Narcissist

Once again, you find yourself struggling to remember what actually did happen. You are having THAT conversation again during which you are told your memory is bad, you are making things up and you must be losing your mind. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist has been told this. It matters …

Narcissism-Scenes From the Front Line — New Job

This is an excerpt from my first book, "I Woke Up in Paradise". I was receiving cheques from the government. They had started to come again after my work at the emergency clinic, but they were about to run out. I had been applying to jobs and despite Bob’s insistence that I work; he was actively …

Why Were You With a Narcissist?–Part 1

So, after a terribly tumultuous time you have discovered that your partner is a narcissist. Yes, it is good to know that you are not going crazy. It is comforting to realize that you were not the source of all of the problems; you were simply the victim of a pathology masked as a lover. …

6 Traits You Can Attribute to Being with a Narcissist– Part 3

This Post is a continuation of Part 1 and Part 2 4. Living a Fantasy Narcissists lie. I know, I shouldn't just blurt it out like that, but it is true. One of the things that they use this skill for is to inflate themselves, what they've done and what they are likely to do in …

Co-dependency and Narcissism

Bill was very nervous. He was walking very carefully, taking each step with care, making sure his foot was planted securely before taking the next. Great thought was put into how to proceed. He could be described as extremely circumspect. At this point, you may begin to form an image in your mind about the …

The Narcissistic Pattern

Being attractive meant that Jesse got a lot of attention. She was regularly asked out and was often disappointed to find that her suitors were disappointing. (and when I write "she", I mean "he" as well. The sexes in this scenario are arbitrary. This can be written exactly the same with any genders). Her looks …

A Narcissist on “The Good Wife”?

He is gorgeous, swarthy and confident. Jason, the new investigator on the series, "The Good Wife" swept in at the beginning of the season and has become the "bad boy" of the show. He flagrantly lies, has been disbarred for punching a judge and he is using his sex appeal to blind Alicia to his …