Forgiveness and the Narcissist

Here is a short video from my YouTube Channel. If you like it you may like the others: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF7HO62Ol-laN6cj6vlkiOA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EX_ZSCdJ4iY

The Narcissist’s Smear Campaign – What to do?

Outsmarting the Narcissist — YouTube Video

Here we go again, live, or it was when I shot it,  How to Outsmart a Narcissist. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK-ZciTKBA4

Outsmarting the Narcissist

Once again, you find yourself struggling to remember what actually did happen. You are having THAT conversation again during which you are told your memory is bad, you are making things up and you must be losing your mind. Anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist has been told this. It matters …

Why Were You With a Narcissist?–Part 1

So, after a terribly tumultuous time you have discovered that your partner is a narcissist. Yes, it is good to know that you are not going crazy. It is comforting to realize that you were not the source of all of the problems; you were simply the victim of a pathology masked as a lover. …

No Contact now Possible when Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Narcissists need a receptacle for their anger. They need to direct their hate and animosity at someone. It is not enough for a narcissist to dislike you, they want to make you suffer. The only way to avoid being on this constant emotional roller coaster is to break off all contact. For those of you …

6 Traits You Can Attribute to Being with a Narcissist– Part 3

This Post is a continuation of Part 1 and Part 2 4. Living a Fantasy Narcissists lie. I know, I shouldn't just blurt it out like that, but it is true. One of the things that they use this skill for is to inflate themselves, what they've done and what they are likely to do in …

The Narcissistic Pattern

Being attractive meant that Jesse got a lot of attention. She was regularly asked out and was often disappointed to find that her suitors were disappointing. (and when I write "she", I mean "he" as well. The sexes in this scenario are arbitrary. This can be written exactly the same with any genders). Her looks …

A Narcissist on “The Good Wife”?

He is gorgeous, swarthy and confident. Jason, the new investigator on the series, "The Good Wife" swept in at the beginning of the season and has become the "bad boy" of the show. He flagrantly lies, has been disbarred for punching a judge and he is using his sex appeal to blind Alicia to his …

Narcissism Navigated — Top 21 Narcissism Posts

Whether you are dating a narcissist, want to leave one, think you might have one in your life, want to know how to spot one or protect yourself from one, I have probably written a blog or a book about it. Here is a summary of the most informative posts that I have on this site. …